It’s not hard to notice the gender specific roles that some men tend to embrace. Whether you are a Tough Top (or just pretending to be- you all know who you are) or a Booty Bouncin Bottom (okay maybe that was playing into the imagery for a second) you are taking a personal stance on how you want friends, family and the rest of society to view you.
But when the show comes to an end, and it comes to being behind close doors, things can quickly change. Those Tough Tops, are no longer so tough; and those booty bottoms… well let’s just say their lacking in certain places. So what does one do when you walk into a situation like this? You can either politely turn them down, or text a friend in a bathroom quietly screaming through your fingers, “FALSE Advertisement- call with an emergency in 10minutes.” With scenarios like this, sex can be quite a bit of a drag- show.
But for those lucky ones who happen to make it to the bedroom (or bathroom at a club) – and be rather happy with their choice, I have to ask, do those same “gender specific roles” that were once a turn on at in the heat of the moment- still apply?
There seems to be a misconception that a bottom cannot expect sex without looking rather easy. And for those that are more dominant in the bedroom, can sex only be sex, when it is on their terms?