A close friend this past weekend explained his side in the aftermath of a good-holiday-gone-bad (boyfriend style).
To keep this scenario coherent and understanding to all, fake names will be used to help describe my close friend and his boyfriend.
My friend John and his boyfriend Jack had been dating for several months. Every month they would break-up, but something would quickly lead them back into each others arms, and next thing you know: any argument they once had would quickly disappear.
They decided to take a romantic holiday together to Prague and Milan . Well, with Jack being from Prague, he introduced John to his friends from back home. They decided to go out to a club one night and John got the chance to meet one of Jack’s former dancing buddies, Mark. (Jack is a professional dancer)
John and Mark hit it off pretty well, probably a lot more than most would prefer. Jack began noticing the two getting very close, and shortly after, John and Mark began “dating.” I use the term dating loosely in this scenario- they went out to a few dinner/lunches and had a couple hook ups- all the while Jack was watching.
Its important to make this one part clear: Jack actually told John that he was okay with this.
After they left Prague and went to Milan, there were a few arguments and a bit of tension in the air, as it would be for most common couples.
In Milan, John fancied a few quys but didn’t make any direct approaches. Though Jack allowed John to date his friend in Prague, he wasn’t quite keen on a few of the looks John was getting/giving from other boys in Milan.
Eventually this lead to an argument with Jack waking up to a text message from Johns good girlfriend (i.e. fag hag). The text message read, “Hey, I know it’s tough but be strong, there are plenty of other boys out there for you.”
John was confused and asked his boyfreind Jack about the text message. After the discussion, both boys confirmed that they were no longer together and broken up
for good this time.
Now the two boys were staying in a very nice hotel in Milan, so they didn’t want just a break up to ruin their trip.
John went his seperate way and decided to approach some of the guys he fancied- one in particular who had a boyfriend. They decided to have a few dinners at a couple nice restaurants, and then one night- they had sex.
Jack decided to get on Grindr (the notorious iphone application which enables you to locate the closest gay in your vicinity.)
John and Jack realized what each other was doing, and had a few more arguements. To make a long story short, the last night they were in the hotel with each other, they fought, and then had break up sex.
Now the question at hand is, do guys really think with their Penises more than their heart? Or was this couple really just not meant to be?
Credit: The title of the post came from a song that John wrote about his relationship with Jack, after returning to London.